A Trip Inside My Head… my secret

Hi…..

I’ve been trying to write this post for over 2 years. But I’m scared. Scared that once I put it out there, I can never take it back. Scared if I don’t put it out there, I will never be able to move forward. I’ve started writing it at least 100 times. Deleted it just as many. You know how I told you that these last few years have been hard? Well, they’ve been really hard. Harder than most people know. My husband, my mom and my sister are really the only ones who I’ve let in. As most of you probably know, I’ve been battling some health problems for quite a few years. Nerve damage, multiple surgeries for that. Back problems. Emergency spine surgery for that. Chronic pain. A pain that dictates how I live my life. But, I have a secret. There is something much worse than the pain that has taken over. Something darker and scarier than I could ever have imagined. Something that, on some days, I just don’t have the strength or the courage to fight. That something is, well, ME.

Yes. I’ve become my own worst enemy and I don’t know how to fight it anymore. Anxiety, depression and panic attacks have taken over. They fill my head with awful thoughts. Tell me that if I leave my porch, something horrible will happen. When I decide that I am going to go out, I get physically sick. My blood pressure (which is already ridiculously high….seriously, I take SIX pills per day for it), goes through the roof. My heart beats fast and hard. My face tingles. My tongue feels 10 times bigger than normal. I can’t swallow. I usually turn around and go back inside, crawl into bed and tell myself that I’ll try it again later. Seriously. It’s so bad. This month, I have left my house five times. And four of them were for health related reasons. The other was a good day and Adrian took me to eat fish down by the square, then we went to Walmart and I bought a hat. It was the third time I’ve been to Walmart or a grocery store this year.

It’s not just leaving the house. It’s also got to the point where very often I don’t answer the phone. It’s not that I don’t want to talk to people. I’m starving for socialization. But, talking on the phone causes me just as much anxiety. I’m a great texter though! I am funny, sarcastic and know all the right words. I love social media. I can feel like I’m socializing without ever having to actually socialize. But, social media is hard too. I see so many people out there doing such awesome stuff. Stuff that I want to do. But my own worst enemy simply will not let me.

So…..that’s my secret. I think I’m going to hit the publish button this time. Maybe. Then it won’t be a secret anymore and maybe I can start fighting back. And, before you say anything, yes, my doctor knows. Several doctors know. It’s not that I’m not working on it…….

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2 thoughts on “A Trip Inside My Head… my secret

  1. I’m sorry, but I can’t remember if I commented this post or not? Anyway, I know the feeling all too well. Even the swallowing thing. For years I was convinced I had an allergy or something that was causing me to choke. Turns out it was nothing. Anxiety is the worst and I don’t wish that hell on anyone. Know that you are not alone. Turns out that are many of us out there. Every day is a struggle. But it makes us strong getting through it all. Even if it doesn’t always feel that way.

    Also, I never knew you had a blog. I’ll hsve to stop by when I make my comment rounds. 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much for saying that. You are right, I hate to think of anyone else feeling like this, but it does make me feel much less alone and not so scared. My heart wants to enjoy life and just LIVE, but my mind feels like it’s holding me prisoner. And the longer I stay in this prison of my own making, the harder it is to break free. If that makes any sense at all? I only blog sporadically, simply because I just feel stuck. I just sort of ramble in my posts.

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